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bad things happen...
March 5, 2008I was really shocked when a guy was annoying me this evening on another website.This website is normaly only joined by students from different universities in germany.but it is also possible to create a fake account. ...
I was really shocked when a guy was annoying me this evening on another website.This website is normaly only joined by students from different universities in germany.but it is also possible to create a fake account. there are also many groups you can join.some funny,serious etc. in one group I've written a comment (there are always some topics the people talk about and post comments).and then there was this guy who was starting to hound me.he was vulgar,lowbrow,disgusting and abusiv.he made sexuall allusions at the beginning,as I rejected him he started the other way round and getting abusing. he's sent me e-mails on my account there,too,not only in the group,and he had left comments on my pin board.it was disgusting.
He had written things I couldn't believe that someone would be able to write to a strange person. I really wonder what kind of people are out there.I reported that annoyance to the founder of the group and all comments and topics were deleted at once. before this was done by the authorities of the group,I was forced to change settings.I had to change my name,had to change so that he cannot see my profile anymore,I had to blog him and so on and on and on....so that he can't reach me anymore.
I was really kinda alarmed.he was like a psych.a person who's enjoying to abuse people. this has happened for the first time to me.and I'd never thought that I would be forced to hide myself from somebody on a webpage.
I kinda felt helpless because he didn't want to stop,'though I told him to.hope I will never relive something like that again.it's horrible.
the only thing that's left to say is that I'm glad that the people here,that you loyals are great! I feel safe here because we all have at least one thing in common and that's Criss!but indeed we have all much more in common,we respect other people.we don't care about superficial things....
'though I will try to forget what has happened.life is life....you can't always get to see just the positive sites.you have to see also the negative to know how to cherish the good one's. from bad experiences you learn,from good one you profit.
take care,love ya all!;-)
nancy